My office is just about done. Even before I was given the surprise desk, I spent a full day cleaning out the yarn/writing room. I wanted more writing, less yarn. After hours and hours of crawling around and swearing, I got rid of four garbage bags of trash. Not even donate-able stuff, just junk. Where did it come from? I was ruthless this time, throwing out broken-down memorabilia and ugly picture frames. I even got rid of the love letters. I’d always saved them, thinking, awwww, it’ll be nice to reread these someday. Nope. Not so much. I glanced at some and got all wooodgy and squirmy about it. Fifty years from now, I bet I’d feel the way. I’m not in those relationships for good reasons, and while love is a great thing to find and have, once it’s gone, there’s no reason to revisit it, except in memory. And if I personally didn’t write it down, I won’t remember it. Someone else’s writing, even directed to me, doesn’t prompt anything in my memory, I’ve found.[Speaking of memory-lapses: I argued with Lala last night. She said I’d been to Yoshi’s for dinner. I said I hadn’t, not ever, but I wanted to go. She said I was just plain wrong. I stuck to my guns until she called my sister-in-law, who was at this alleged dinner. She agreed with Lala! She said I was there! I gave up and ate my ice cream in sullen defeat, but I still wonder if they’re just thinking of someone who looked like me.]
During the cleaning-spree, I went through paperwork. Now, people. I haven’t filed in two and a half years, not since before we moved to this house. I’d just been stacking paper horizontally in boxes. And I had a very full filing cabinet that moved along with me that hadn’t even been looked at for more years than I care to remember. So I cleaned it all out, only saving the important stuff, the taxes, house paperwork, and the like. I’m down to one small filing box from Ikea which is only half-full. Oh, the feeling of power!
I shredded a garbage bag full of paper (which creates a LOT of shredded paper, I tell ya). That was fun. I like to shred things, especially papers from the 90s. Found a three-dollar BART card. Whoopee!
This paper dilemma won’t happen again, and I actually mean this (I’m really pretty darn sure. Mostly). I’ve had great success this year with a new filing system. I know I read about it on a GTD site somewhere: I got an expandable file folder (like THIS one), with 13 pockets. I labeled each pocket with a month, and I have one pocket for miscellaneous stuff that needs to be dealt with soon, but not immediately. Once I pay a bill or process something, it goes into the relevant month’s pocket.
So far so good, right? The REALLY fun part happens when you’ve been using this system for a year (I’m almost there! Come on, October!). Then you pull out everything in that pocket from last year and get rid of almost all of it. Shred it all. Keep tax stuff and health stuff, obviously. Anything you might actually need again. But a year later, you’re probably never going to need to reference your water bill again. You know? I can’t wait for that part. Then you perma-file the long-term stuff, and keep on rolling along. This actually gives me a thrill to think about.
This all might be really boring if you’re not one of THOSE people. But I’m one of those people. I can read for days about what pen people think is best. Me, I’m a Pilot G-2 .5 kind of girl, to the point that I carry my pen to work and take it home with me at night.
Oh, and by the way, I AM NEVER ALLOWED TO BUY FIBER AGAIN. Yarn, maybe. But no fiber, until I spin at least half of the obscene amount I now have tucked away in the bedroom closet (tucked away sounds so cute. Like I just popped it in there and closed the door, instead of the truth: that I forced it all into an enormous contractor bag and then used all my strength to push it in and then shut the door by dint of sheer brute force). Must spin more. And must read more. Really, I have no need to buy any more yarn/fiber/books for a very long time. While I’m sure I’ll forget this (and quickly), it makes me feel good to know. When the revolution comes, I’ll have enough to read and knit and spin.
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