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Wedding 3.0

September 6, 2008

That was awesome. Really. Even better than I thought it would be.

1. No stress at all. We didn’t even really tell anyone about it until Monday and only invited my sisters and La’s brother and sister-in-law to the ceremony. It just happened that Lala’s parents told us on Tuesday that they’d be in the area, so they got to be there too, which was unplanned but amazing.

2. Did I mention no stress? I dug my dress out of the coat closet an hour before we were supposed to leave. Yep. Still looked okay. Lala got held up at work and got home twenty minutes before we had to leave, and she made it with time to spare.

3. I was NOT the only lesbian knitter there getting married! Nancy Roberts, of Machine Knitting to Dye For fame (she’s a genius), was marrying her long-time partner, Adrianna. So great. We lurve them.

4. The hair! Lala’s had her orange stripe for a while now and I realized our photos might look kind of funny. I called her two days before the wedding and said, "I’ve been thinking. You know, I’m just not that comfortable with the idea of you have orange hair in our wedding photos." Then I paused, a LONG time, in which I heard her brain scrambling for some way to save her hair. Then I said, "Unless I have orange hair, too! Will you dye mine tonight?"

5. Pictures (more over here):

License

At the clerk’s desk, waiting to get our license. So. Cool.

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Waiting for our justice of the peace to come git us and take us upstairs where the magic happens.

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I have gathered you all here today….

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Lala, me, Adrianna, and Nancy. You  can tell who’s part of which couple by the color arrangements. (Nancy dyed that green yarn that Adrianna knitted up so beautifully. I wish I’d captured the sweater better…..)

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Gittin’ hitched.

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The ring part!

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All done.

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Yay.

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Gotta have a Rachael self-portrait style shot.

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Outside Jack London’s cabin.

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At dinner, at Soizic (right before sister Bethany (right) got slammed with a screaming migraine. Poor kiddo). Fantastic dinner. Thank you, Tony!

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Sister Christy and me. We might have had a few drinks by then. But maybe not. You never know.

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Hooooray!

6. After a family dinner, we had a drink-up with friends at Baggy’s By The Lake, where we had our first date. Everyone appeared to have a good time. I certainly did. I believe there was bourbon and dancing involved, but again, that might just be a rumor. More party pictures over at my Flickr set.

7. We learned that Baggy’s is a $30 cab-ride (not bad) home, given that the cabbie is employed by Grand Theft Auto. Damn.  I swear, if he could have popped a wheelie with his cab, he would have. Apparently Lala was terrified, but it felt like one big video game to me.

8. Love is good.

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  1. PlazaJen says

    September 6, 2008 at 1:38 pm

    Love IS good. Beautiful smiles. Enjoy 3.0!

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  2. Erynn says

    September 6, 2008 at 1:49 pm

    Congrats x3!
    I wish I was closer to California. Monday is me and my gf’s 6 yr anniversary. Would be a great time to get hitched!
    Hooray for love!

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  3. yaga says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:01 pm

    you are looking so great! and of course even better you two together…:o) congratulation! *hug*

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  4. Shelly says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:01 pm

    Again, you two are just the cutest! Congrats on 3.0!

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  5. Becca says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:02 pm

    Mazel tov!

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  6. Rita says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:07 pm

    You two make a delightful couple. I am so very glad that you may be lovers, in love and LEGAL.
    Huzzah for progression.

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  7. Gina in the Glenview (Oakland) says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:19 pm

    Gorgeous! Gorgeous! Gorgeous! You both are absolutely beautiful (and so is the wedding ring quilt in the background)! Congratulations and all the very best.

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  8. KnittingInMind says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:30 pm

    Congratulations!
    Is that another tattoo on your left shoulder?

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  9. Sarah says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:31 pm

    I hardly ever comment, but often read your blog. Just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS!! Oh, and, love the orange hair.

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  10. Tasha says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:34 pm

    You are such a gorgeous couple! Congrats!

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  11. Lynn in Tucson says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:36 pm

    So grand, so grand. And the coordinating hair is SMASHING.

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  12. leslie - knitting therapist says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:37 pm

    So happy that you get to marry your love THREE times!
    Let’s all push to keep it legal! (Our election is coming too – aack!)
    Much love to all!

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  13. beverly says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:47 pm

    You had me laughing so hard with how naughty you were to Lala about her hair! I love the streaks!
    Congratulations!!!

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  14. Dani says

    September 6, 2008 at 2:49 pm

    Congratulations to you both! The pictures are lovely, as are both of you!

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  15. jen says

    September 6, 2008 at 3:12 pm

    love is great! congratulations. i’m so happy i live in california where i was able to marry my boyfriend but could have married a girlfriend if i wanted!
    jen

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  16. Giulietta says

    September 6, 2008 at 3:14 pm

    You both look wonderful and in love! Congratulations Rachael and thanks for the pics! I hope you will not loose any of your rights. xoxo
    Giulietta

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  17. rc says

    September 6, 2008 at 3:56 pm

    Totally awesome. Love the matching hair! =)

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  18. Wendy says

    September 6, 2008 at 4:04 pm

    Yay, congratulations again!
    I love the last kissy pic. ๐Ÿ™‚ You miss the color of Lala’s hair but you get to see how cool her curls are.

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  19. indigirl says

    September 6, 2008 at 4:09 pm

    Congratulations 3.0!
    xoxoxox

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  20. Helen says

    September 6, 2008 at 4:28 pm

    I loved my “front row seat” at your wedding. Many years of happiness to you and Lala!
    -Helen

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  21. claudia says

    September 6, 2008 at 4:59 pm

    Congratulations 3.0.

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  22. Margit says

    September 6, 2008 at 5:00 pm

    Love your dress! You two look so happy together! Congrats again! =D

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  23. Stardust says

    September 6, 2008 at 5:09 pm

    I can’t help but cry like a baby at how beautiful you guys are!! I’m SO DAMN proud to be moving to California in a few weeks, cause how can ANYONE deny that your love isn’t allowed?!?!
    My new goal in life? To take you two out to dinner.
    PS…
    Your ink healed up nicely, too. I’m sporting a nice scab on my chest right now ๐Ÿ™‚

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  24. Carry says

    September 6, 2008 at 5:15 pm

    You two rock!!! (I think I may have mentioned that before?) You’re both beautiful and amazing women, I’m so glad you were able to finally make it legal in our country.
    I hope to be as happy as the two of you some day. xox

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  25. Re says

    September 6, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    You both look wonderful and in love! Congratulations!

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  26. meg says

    September 6, 2008 at 5:32 pm

    YAY! Congrats on getting hitched! I hope that your CA marriage certificate is legal and binding forever!
    Much love from Michigan!

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  27. Bethany says

    September 6, 2008 at 6:34 pm

    Awesome, awesome, awesome! Congratulations! I am grinning from ear to ear, here! And can’t stop hitting the exclamation key!
    Love your hair (both of you)! And love the kissing shot at the end. You should print it out and have it framed.

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  28. Amanda says

    September 6, 2008 at 7:19 pm

    YAY!

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  29. Faith says

    September 6, 2008 at 8:34 pm

    I believe wholeheartedly in the institution of marriage. May you two have as much love in yours that we do in ours!!!!
    xoxo
    Faith

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  30. Chrissy says

    September 6, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    Congratulations! ๐Ÿ˜€ Haha, I love your matching hair.

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  31. Mel says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:02 pm

    Yay! Love is, indeed, good. Now if only Maine would legalize our union, though I think I’d just as soon they recognized our Canadian wedding.

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  32. Kathy in San Jose says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:05 pm

    Congratulations to everyone involved. Love is definitely good!

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  33. Cindy/Snid says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:28 pm

    Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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  34. Linda in Waterloo says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:31 pm

    May your love last you all of your days
    And save and support you in wonderful ways.

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  35. moiraeknittoo says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:45 pm

    Congrats again! *jazzhands*

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  36. caroline says

    September 6, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    Like Jim Morrison said, Love you three times, baby!!! I send you cuties three times the hugs & kisses. Ain’t love grand???!
    p.s. hugs & Hi to Bethany, too!

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  37. TheBon says

    September 6, 2008 at 11:07 pm

    Happy love day! Happy marriage x3! Happy legal in California!

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  38. knitoneone says

    September 6, 2008 at 11:58 pm

    What a fabulous celebration of life and love. You and Lala are positively glowing! Makes me feel good about life. And now I am absolutely going to volunteer at the phone bank!

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  39. Celia says

    September 7, 2008 at 12:11 am

    Looks like it was fun! Sorry I missed the partay. xoxoxo

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  40. Steph says

    September 7, 2008 at 12:31 am

    You two are so ridiculously cute. Best, best, best wishes. Love IS good.

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  41. TMK says

    September 7, 2008 at 12:40 am

    Congrats! Sorry I couldn’t be there for 3.0

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  42. grace says

    September 7, 2008 at 5:18 am

    Third time is TRULY a charm . . .
    g

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  43. courtney says

    September 7, 2008 at 5:35 am

    Congratulations! I love the sweet story of the hair! Plus, the orange looks adorable on both of you. All best wishes!

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  44. jodi says

    September 7, 2008 at 6:35 am

    Wonderful! Y’all both look gorgeous in orange. I hope that someday soon you’ll be able to get married in every state.

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  45. Faith says

    September 7, 2008 at 7:18 am

    Congratulations and best wishes once again! Y’all are becoming old hands at the wedding thing, and it certainly suits you.

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  46. kathleen says

    September 7, 2008 at 7:20 am

    so freaking fabulous! and the hair. love it. wish kevin and I had done something awesome like that!

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  47. Saffron says

    September 7, 2008 at 7:34 am

    I just had to delurk to give you my heartfelt congratulations. How absolutely wonderful! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  48. Lee says

    September 7, 2008 at 8:33 am

    Love these piccies and still loving this blog. Its become a great treat for me to follow your adventures.
    Wish it was legal in federal law though… my partner is from the US and I’m from the UK. She is literally exiled in England because we cannot legally live together in the US, in any state. Of course, this is because immigration is an issue of federal and not civil law.
    Lots of people dont realise this, our friends have been quite shocked that we have no choice to live in the US, and Christine has to choose between being with me or going ‘home’.
    However, these pictures are very cheering to me, that there is some movement, in some states….also, hoping that there will be a number 4,5,6 for you…..and sure there will be ๐Ÿ™‚
    Lee x

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  49. Stacy says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:02 am

    Congrats! I gives me the warm fuzzies that you can legally marry!!!

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  50. Julie says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:17 am

    If you two were any cuter I would explode. Congratulations (again! and ever!)

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  51. Knitterary says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:27 am

    A lifetime of happiness and showers of blessings on you both!
    Theresa

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  52. scoutj says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:29 am

    It’s good FO SHO!

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  53. Urban Fantasy Sara says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:51 am

    I had Grand Theft Auto come to fix my TV once. It was pretty funny.
    Congratulations on Wedding 3.0!

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  54. melly says

    September 7, 2008 at 9:54 am

    love -is- good. boys, girls, whatever. enjoy.

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  55. Sarah says

    September 7, 2008 at 10:09 am

    Congratulations! Love the coordinating orange hair stripes — too cute!

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  56. yan says

    September 7, 2008 at 10:54 am

    Love IS good ! definitely !
    Amour, amour, le seul bon chemin …
    Congrats again !

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  57. Alexis says

    September 7, 2008 at 3:15 pm

    Congratulations on #3!!!

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  58. Kathie says

    September 7, 2008 at 3:42 pm

    What a beautiful post to read first thing on a Monday morning! Congratulations!!!

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  59. Katharine says

    September 7, 2008 at 6:31 pm

    3.0 Good Stuff!

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  60. Nell says

    September 7, 2008 at 6:56 pm

    Congrats!!!!!!! Looks like a hell of a party!

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  61. Red says

    September 7, 2008 at 7:30 pm

    Yes, love is good. However, let’s hope you don’t have to do it again because of politics.
    Congratulations!

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  62. robin says

    September 7, 2008 at 7:33 pm

    congrats, awesome persons!! times three!

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  63. Mary says

    September 7, 2008 at 10:11 pm

    You are probably sick of hearing this by now but you too are so very cute.
    I can’t wait until later this month when my friends in LA finally get to get hitched.
    Congratulations! (Again :)!)

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  64. martian77 says

    September 8, 2008 at 3:50 am

    Wow! How rock n’ roll do you two look? And happy and relaxed and everything. Yay!

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  65. Cobbalicious says

    September 8, 2008 at 8:55 am

    Congrats (again)! Y’all look so very happy.

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  66. karen says

    September 8, 2008 at 9:00 am

    yay x 3! and thanks for giving me that life-affirming feeling you get when you see a really happy, loving couple.

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  67. elisa says

    September 8, 2008 at 9:20 am

    Third time’s a(nother) charm! You’re like super-duper married now. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Congratulations, and I wish you decades and decades of happiness and love.

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  68. Rachel T says

    September 8, 2008 at 10:19 am

    Rock and roll!!! Love the hair, still love the suit and the dress. and I especially love the marriage equality!!

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  69. Yin says

    September 8, 2008 at 10:57 am

    You and Lala look so radiant in your pictures. Congratulations!

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  70. Kathleen C says

    September 8, 2008 at 10:59 am

    Many, many wishes for ahppiness and a long love filled life together!!!
    Sniff… Even just pictures of weddings make me cry..

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  71. Kathleen C says

    September 8, 2008 at 11:01 am

    I meant “Happiness” not “ahppiness” of course. Sheesh. I can’t spell with teary eyes.

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  72. Alison says

    September 8, 2008 at 11:34 am

    Congratulations! How can anyone object to love…?

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  73. cgreno says

    September 8, 2008 at 12:13 pm

    All girly and weepy on this end! Horay for LOVE and…. thank you for sharing!

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  74. Carol says

    September 8, 2008 at 1:41 pm

    Congratulations! Lvoe the matching hair!

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  75. Allison says

    September 8, 2008 at 3:48 pm

    Congratulations! So happy for the pair of you! And your hair looks AWESOME in the photos.

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  76. Jenn says

    September 8, 2008 at 4:47 pm

    Congrats and love love love the sassy hair on you both! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  77. Big Alice says

    September 8, 2008 at 7:28 pm

    Congratulations!! AGAIN!

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  78. Carie Lynn says

    September 9, 2008 at 8:44 am

    Again, Rachel, you’ve managed to make me feel good through & through by sharing your life with all of us. You two are amazing together!

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  79. AuntieAnn says

    September 9, 2008 at 10:11 am

    Hooray! Congratulations! And a great big NO ON 8!

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  80. Monet says

    September 9, 2008 at 3:43 pm

    Congratulations to you guys! You look very happy and blessed with wonderful family and friends.
    I hope that you enjoy many years together as a married couple!

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  81. bee says

    September 9, 2008 at 4:50 pm

    Knock knock.
    Who’s there?
    Orange.
    Orange who?
    Orange y’all just the CUTEST couple?
    Blessings to you both, forever.
    XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

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  82. Jill says

    September 9, 2008 at 6:31 pm

    Up with Love! Thank you for sharing your beautiful day with all of us in blogland. Congratulations to you both. May you have a long and happy marriage.

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  83. Teenuh says

    September 10, 2008 at 2:34 am

    So I was on vacation when you tied the knot, and I’m only just getting caught up, but I wanted to say congratulations again. Everyone should look as hot as you two with your orange hair! What a gorgeous pair of ladies you two are.

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  84. Julia says

    September 10, 2008 at 7:40 am

    Congratulations, and best wishes for you both!

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  85. Alicia says

    September 10, 2008 at 1:58 pm

    Congrats (again)! You both look so beautiful!

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  86. Katherine says

    September 10, 2008 at 8:21 pm

    Congratulations to you two! I’m so happy that California finally saw the light as well. I just got married this weekend (to a man) and we included a reading from the Mass. court decision because we believe very strongly that marriage should be available to everyone.

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  87. Rabbitch says

    September 10, 2008 at 8:40 pm

    I teared up. Again. Congrats ๐Ÿ™‚

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  88. alison says

    September 13, 2008 at 2:59 pm

    For the 80-gajillionth time, let me just say that you two make the most adorable couple ever. xo

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  89. Dr. Steph says

    September 17, 2008 at 10:58 am

    I love you two! So many awesome weddings for a fantastic couple.
    So glad it could be at home this time.

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  90. Romi says

    September 23, 2008 at 8:42 am

    Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Big congratulations! Love is all you need. Well, plus a few civil rights thrown in here and there. :->

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