So, I'm getting this itch.
The minimalist urge.
I always get this. There must be a word in German for a person like me, someone who clutters things up easily, naturally, yet yearns for simplicity.
I remember when a friend's daughter entered our house once. She was about four, and her mom loved clean lines and simplicity. That's what she was used to. She walked into our house and immediately yelled, "Mama, it's CRAZY in here!"
Lala and I have a deal. She leaves her office the way she likes, and I don't bother her about it. My office is mine. We try to keep our crafts/hobbies inside our own offices, and keep the living areas as spare as possible (not spare by any stretch, but not crazy-making, usually). We keep our clothes in our office closets–the tiny bedroom is for us to sleep in (this helps a lot when I sleep weird hours, too).
But I keep dreaming about tiny homes. I'd have one if I were single. I know I would. I've lived in 200 sq foot spaces, and nothing pleases my mind more than thinking about how to save space. I love downsizing, getting rid of stuff. A tiny home would be so FUN. The thing is, I love being married to Lala way more than I would ever enjoy the idea of a tiny home. I love our life together, and our big dumb cats and our sweet, sweet dogs. I love our house, too. It's perfect for us, just the right size (1100 sq feet, three tiny bedrooms, one bath, big living/dining room, big kitchen).
Tonight, while avoiding writing and watching TED talks (as you do), I realized: I have a whole office. To myself. And it's full of Stuff I Don't Need. It's AMAZING what I've packed into that room.
So my plan is this:
- Box everything in my office as if we were moving.
- Keep out only what I'll use that week.
- Decide what the space should look like and how to make it be that, prioritizing what's important: writing and reading (it's hard to read in there now. I have a tiny wee sofa, but the space doesn't lend itself to reading–you must be able to fully recline to read, don't you think?).
- Decide what few mementos are necessary for me to keep to feel grounded. (I don't need to keep all the things I grabbed after my mother died to remember her. Owning all her old fabric isn't necessary to me. It doesn't make me remember her more–it only serves to make me feel guilty that it's all sitting hidden in the closet.)
- Hold on to your hats: Yarn isn't very important. I've culled, over the last few years, so that I'm down to just a few projects' worth of yarn. The problem is I also have bags and bags of unfinished projects. I've let go of a few, and I think it's time to let the rest go, too. One sweater, one shawl, and one pair of socks on the needles. Do I ever need more than that?
- Hold a garage sale, sell everything that's left (Bay Area peeps, I'll let you know when it is — there will be yarn UFOs and lots of craft books), and toss the money raised at the student loan (now down to 33k from 50k).
- Digitize things like old pictures and old writing. I'm using this method, I think, even though it means making friends with Evernote, which, along with espresso machines, I've dedicated my life to avoiding learning how to use.
And now, in the quiet middle of the night, I'm going to look at Pinterest images of perfect people's perfect reading nooks. I don't want perfect. But I want clear, and spare, and me. And I'm so over white Billy bookcases I could just DIE, you know?
Watch this space.
(Oh! And don't forget to join the Goodreads giveaway of Spinters of Light – my publisher is giving away 20 copies!! (Only for US residents, I'm so sorry to say).)
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Susan says
Oh, I feel you 100%. I want more than anything to have clean, open spaces to live in, but I have hoarding tendencies that make it so hard to clear it all out. I’ve been taking the moving approach as well: if I wouldn’t take it with me if I moved, it’s gone.
Charlotte Rains Dixon says
My daughter is helping me move my office from upstairs to downstairs (I’m so bad at organizing I actually need help) and I’ve boxed up most of the things in my office. And, um, this is embarrassing to admit, but the boxes have been sitting there for a month or so. Because–I don’t freaking need anything in them! This occurred to me in a flash of insight a couple days ago. After Christmas, I can get rid of most of it. Good luck with your project!
Sassy says
We moved to the Bay Area a couple of years ago and fit into a space that is 1/4 of what we were moving from (big house in the country in Colorado). We got rid of so much stuff, moved and got rid of more and are STILL getting rid of stuff. And I alternate between wanting every inch of wall space covered and wanting absolutely nothing on the walls and the floor, etc. If I could just stick to one or the other, this would all be a lot easier! So I totally get your decision to clear the space and the air!
I’ve been scanning using the ScanSnap1300 and I’m loving it. Haven’t gotten into Evernote yet but then again, most of what I am scanning is going into files by years and won’t be looked at unless the IRS has an issue (let’s hope not). Neither labeling nor dealing with the OCR search set up speeds things up considerably.
Good luck!
Stardancer says
This sounds like so much fun! Keep us posted!
jodi says
I suspect the German word you are looking for is: “Jodi.” (Ask me how I know.)
I think I could post the same comment to every blog post of yours:
I love this, and you.
(Apparently this week I also love colons. The punctuation not the squishy bits.)
You are an inspiration. xo
AnneS says
Thank you so much for this! I absolutely need to do exactly what you are doing. I have too much stuff and it is getting in the way of doing what I love to do.
Grace says
Oh dear. This is an interesting series of posts that piques my curiosity. You are taking the flying leap that I occasionally think about, but I’m still clinging on dearly to so many of my things. More power to you. – Grace