That was awesome. Really. Even better than I thought it would be.
1. No stress at all. We didn’t even really tell anyone about it until Monday and only invited my sisters and La’s brother and sister-in-law to the ceremony. It just happened that Lala’s parents told us on Tuesday that they’d be in the area, so they got to be there too, which was unplanned but amazing.
2. Did I mention no stress? I dug my dress out of the coat closet an hour before we were supposed to leave. Yep. Still looked okay. Lala got held up at work and got home twenty minutes before we had to leave, and she made it with time to spare.
3. I was NOT the only lesbian knitter there getting married! Nancy Roberts, of Machine Knitting to Dye For fame (she’s a genius), was marrying her long-time partner, Adrianna. So great. We lurve them.
4. The hair! Lala’s had her orange stripe for a while now and I realized our photos might look kind of funny. I called her two days before the wedding and said, "I’ve been thinking. You know, I’m just not that comfortable with the idea of you have orange hair in our wedding photos." Then I paused, a LONG time, in which I heard her brain scrambling for some way to save her hair. Then I said, "Unless I have orange hair, too! Will you dye mine tonight?"
5. Pictures (more over here):
At the clerk’s desk, waiting to get our license. So. Cool.
Waiting for our justice of the peace to come git us and take us upstairs where the magic happens.
I have gathered you all here today….
Lala, me, Adrianna, and Nancy. You can tell who’s part of which couple by the color arrangements. (Nancy dyed that green yarn that Adrianna knitted up so beautifully. I wish I’d captured the sweater better…..)
Gotta have a Rachael self-portrait style shot.
At dinner, at Soizic (right before sister Bethany (right) got slammed with a screaming migraine. Poor kiddo). Fantastic dinner. Thank you, Tony!
Sister Christy and me. We might have had a few drinks by then. But maybe not. You never know.
6. After a family dinner, we had a drink-up with friends at Baggy’s By The Lake, where we had our first date. Everyone appeared to have a good time. I certainly did. I believe there was bourbon and dancing involved, but again, that might just be a rumor. More party pictures over at my Flickr set.
7. We learned that Baggy’s is a $30 cab-ride (not bad) home, given that the cabbie is employed by Grand Theft Auto. Damn. I swear, if he could have popped a wheelie with his cab, he would have. Apparently Lala was terrified, but it felt like one big video game to me.
8. Love is good.
PlazaJen says
Love IS good. Beautiful smiles. Enjoy 3.0!
Erynn says
Congrats x3!
I wish I was closer to California. Monday is me and my gf’s 6 yr anniversary. Would be a great time to get hitched!
Hooray for love!
yaga says
you are looking so great! and of course even better you two together…:o) congratulation! *hug*
Shelly says
Again, you two are just the cutest! Congrats on 3.0!
Becca says
Mazel tov!
Rita says
You two make a delightful couple. I am so very glad that you may be lovers, in love and LEGAL.
Huzzah for progression.
Gina in the Glenview (Oakland) says
Gorgeous! Gorgeous! Gorgeous! You both are absolutely beautiful (and so is the wedding ring quilt in the background)! Congratulations and all the very best.
KnittingInMind says
Congratulations!
Is that another tattoo on your left shoulder?
Sarah says
I hardly ever comment, but often read your blog. Just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS!! Oh, and, love the orange hair.
Tasha says
You are such a gorgeous couple! Congrats!
Lynn in Tucson says
So grand, so grand. And the coordinating hair is SMASHING.
leslie - knitting therapist says
So happy that you get to marry your love THREE times!
Let’s all push to keep it legal! (Our election is coming too – aack!)
Much love to all!
beverly says
You had me laughing so hard with how naughty you were to Lala about her hair! I love the streaks!
Congratulations!!!
Dani says
Congratulations to you both! The pictures are lovely, as are both of you!
jen says
love is great! congratulations. i’m so happy i live in california where i was able to marry my boyfriend but could have married a girlfriend if i wanted!
jen
Giulietta says
You both look wonderful and in love! Congratulations Rachael and thanks for the pics! I hope you will not loose any of your rights. xoxo
Giulietta
rc says
Totally awesome. Love the matching hair! =)
Wendy says
Yay, congratulations again!
I love the last kissy pic. ๐ You miss the color of Lala’s hair but you get to see how cool her curls are.
indigirl says
Congratulations 3.0!
xoxoxox
Helen says
I loved my “front row seat” at your wedding. Many years of happiness to you and Lala!
-Helen
claudia says
Congratulations 3.0.
Margit says
Love your dress! You two look so happy together! Congrats again! =D
Stardust says
I can’t help but cry like a baby at how beautiful you guys are!! I’m SO DAMN proud to be moving to California in a few weeks, cause how can ANYONE deny that your love isn’t allowed?!?!
My new goal in life? To take you two out to dinner.
PS…
Your ink healed up nicely, too. I’m sporting a nice scab on my chest right now ๐
Carry says
You two rock!!! (I think I may have mentioned that before?) You’re both beautiful and amazing women, I’m so glad you were able to finally make it legal in our country.
I hope to be as happy as the two of you some day. xox
Re says
You both look wonderful and in love! Congratulations!
meg says
YAY! Congrats on getting hitched! I hope that your CA marriage certificate is legal and binding forever!
Much love from Michigan!
Bethany says
Awesome, awesome, awesome! Congratulations! I am grinning from ear to ear, here! And can’t stop hitting the exclamation key!
Love your hair (both of you)! And love the kissing shot at the end. You should print it out and have it framed.
Amanda says
YAY!
Faith says
I believe wholeheartedly in the institution of marriage. May you two have as much love in yours that we do in ours!!!!
xoxo
Faith
Chrissy says
Congratulations! ๐ Haha, I love your matching hair.
Mel says
Yay! Love is, indeed, good. Now if only Maine would legalize our union, though I think I’d just as soon they recognized our Canadian wedding.
Kathy in San Jose says
Congratulations to everyone involved. Love is definitely good!
Cindy/Snid says
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Linda in Waterloo says
May your love last you all of your days
And save and support you in wonderful ways.
moiraeknittoo says
Congrats again! *jazzhands*
caroline says
Like Jim Morrison said, Love you three times, baby!!! I send you cuties three times the hugs & kisses. Ain’t love grand???!
p.s. hugs & Hi to Bethany, too!
TheBon says
Happy love day! Happy marriage x3! Happy legal in California!
knitoneone says
What a fabulous celebration of life and love. You and Lala are positively glowing! Makes me feel good about life. And now I am absolutely going to volunteer at the phone bank!
Celia says
Looks like it was fun! Sorry I missed the partay. xoxoxo
Steph says
You two are so ridiculously cute. Best, best, best wishes. Love IS good.
TMK says
Congrats! Sorry I couldn’t be there for 3.0
grace says
Third time is TRULY a charm . . .
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courtney says
Congratulations! I love the sweet story of the hair! Plus, the orange looks adorable on both of you. All best wishes!
jodi says
Wonderful! Y’all both look gorgeous in orange. I hope that someday soon you’ll be able to get married in every state.
Faith says
Congratulations and best wishes once again! Y’all are becoming old hands at the wedding thing, and it certainly suits you.
kathleen says
so freaking fabulous! and the hair. love it. wish kevin and I had done something awesome like that!
Saffron says
I just had to delurk to give you my heartfelt congratulations. How absolutely wonderful! ๐
Lee says
Love these piccies and still loving this blog. Its become a great treat for me to follow your adventures.
Wish it was legal in federal law though… my partner is from the US and I’m from the UK. She is literally exiled in England because we cannot legally live together in the US, in any state. Of course, this is because immigration is an issue of federal and not civil law.
Lots of people dont realise this, our friends have been quite shocked that we have no choice to live in the US, and Christine has to choose between being with me or going ‘home’.
However, these pictures are very cheering to me, that there is some movement, in some states….also, hoping that there will be a number 4,5,6 for you…..and sure there will be ๐
Lee x
Stacy says
Congrats! I gives me the warm fuzzies that you can legally marry!!!
Julie says
If you two were any cuter I would explode. Congratulations (again! and ever!)
Knitterary says
A lifetime of happiness and showers of blessings on you both!
Theresa
scoutj says
It’s good FO SHO!
Urban Fantasy Sara says
I had Grand Theft Auto come to fix my TV once. It was pretty funny.
Congratulations on Wedding 3.0!
melly says
love -is- good. boys, girls, whatever. enjoy.
Sarah says
Congratulations! Love the coordinating orange hair stripes — too cute!
yan says
Love IS good ! definitely !
Amour, amour, le seul bon chemin …
Congrats again !
Alexis says
Congratulations on #3!!!
Kathie says
What a beautiful post to read first thing on a Monday morning! Congratulations!!!
Katharine says
3.0 Good Stuff!
Nell says
Congrats!!!!!!! Looks like a hell of a party!
Red says
Yes, love is good. However, let’s hope you don’t have to do it again because of politics.
Congratulations!
robin says
congrats, awesome persons!! times three!
Mary says
You are probably sick of hearing this by now but you too are so very cute.
I can’t wait until later this month when my friends in LA finally get to get hitched.
Congratulations! (Again :)!)
martian77 says
Wow! How rock n’ roll do you two look? And happy and relaxed and everything. Yay!
Cobbalicious says
Congrats (again)! Y’all look so very happy.
karen says
yay x 3! and thanks for giving me that life-affirming feeling you get when you see a really happy, loving couple.
elisa says
Third time’s a(nother) charm! You’re like super-duper married now. ๐
Congratulations, and I wish you decades and decades of happiness and love.
Rachel T says
Rock and roll!!! Love the hair, still love the suit and the dress. and I especially love the marriage equality!!
Yin says
You and Lala look so radiant in your pictures. Congratulations!
Kathleen C says
Many, many wishes for ahppiness and a long love filled life together!!!
Sniff… Even just pictures of weddings make me cry..
Kathleen C says
I meant “Happiness” not “ahppiness” of course. Sheesh. I can’t spell with teary eyes.
Alison says
Congratulations! How can anyone object to love…?
cgreno says
All girly and weepy on this end! Horay for LOVE and…. thank you for sharing!
Carol says
Congratulations! Lvoe the matching hair!
Allison says
Congratulations! So happy for the pair of you! And your hair looks AWESOME in the photos.
Jenn says
Congrats and love love love the sassy hair on you both! ๐
Big Alice says
Congratulations!! AGAIN!
Carie Lynn says
Again, Rachel, you’ve managed to make me feel good through & through by sharing your life with all of us. You two are amazing together!
AuntieAnn says
Hooray! Congratulations! And a great big NO ON 8!
Monet says
Congratulations to you guys! You look very happy and blessed with wonderful family and friends.
I hope that you enjoy many years together as a married couple!
bee says
Knock knock.
Who’s there?
Orange.
Orange who?
Orange y’all just the CUTEST couple?
Blessings to you both, forever.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Jill says
Up with Love! Thank you for sharing your beautiful day with all of us in blogland. Congratulations to you both. May you have a long and happy marriage.
Teenuh says
So I was on vacation when you tied the knot, and I’m only just getting caught up, but I wanted to say congratulations again. Everyone should look as hot as you two with your orange hair! What a gorgeous pair of ladies you two are.
Julia says
Congratulations, and best wishes for you both!
Alicia says
Congrats (again)! You both look so beautiful!
Katherine says
Congratulations to you two! I’m so happy that California finally saw the light as well. I just got married this weekend (to a man) and we included a reading from the Mass. court decision because we believe very strongly that marriage should be available to everyone.
Rabbitch says
I teared up. Again. Congrats ๐
alison says
For the 80-gajillionth time, let me just say that you two make the most adorable couple ever. xo
Dr. Steph says
I love you two! So many awesome weddings for a fantastic couple.
So glad it could be at home this time.
Romi says
Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Big congratulations! Love is all you need. Well, plus a few civil rights thrown in here and there. :->