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Ep. 253: Catriona Turner On How to Write the Miraculous in the Everyday

Catriona Turner is a writer and editor currently living in Esbjerg, Denmark. A veteran of six international moves since leaving Scotland 12 years ago, she’s also lived with her family in France, Uganda, and the Republic of Congo. At her website, The Frustrated Nester, she writes about Danish living, travel, and the expat life. She has contributed a regular column to a magazine for internationals in Denmark, and her writing has featured in anthologies about international living. She also works as a freelance copyeditor and proofreader. With a couple of to-be-completed novels on the shelf, she’s currently working on a memoir, due for publication in early 2022, while preparing for her family’s next big move.

Transcript:

Rachael Herron: [00:00:00] Welcome to “How do you Write?” I’m your host, Rachael Herron. On this podcast, I talk to authors about how they write, what their process is and how their lives fit together. I’ll keep each episode short so you can get back to writing.

[00:00:15] Well, Hello writers! Welcome to episode #253 of “How do you Write?” I’m Rachael Herron. I am so pleased you’re with me here today, because today we are talking to Catriona Turner, who is a friend of mine, but she is also an amazing editor and she is a writer and she is basically a professional expat. So in this interview, you will hear me pick her brain about moving as well as writing. And I have to say that I was just handling some of her edits that she did for a rereleased book that I’m working on right now. And she’s just brilliant. She really, really is. She’s completely delightful. And in this episode, we talk about looking for the everyday in the miraculous-ness of writing, and I know that you are going to enjoy it.

[00:01:09] So, before we get into that, what’s going on around here? Well, so goddamn much. Holy crap! We’re out of MIQ, which was managed isolation/quarantine. We are out of it, and we are, I’m recording this on Friday, we have been living in Auckland for four days since Monday, and this is temporary. Actually, we leave on Sunday to go up north to a place called Russel where apparently we’re going to have a house which you can’t always drive to. You can only drive to it when it is low tide. So if it is high tide, you got to leave your car at the car park and perhaps wade through the ocean water to get to the house. So that’s going to be super cool and exciting. And I can’t wait to tell you about that, but that’s not right now. Right now, is Auckland. We have an apartment pretty, right between the central business district in Ponsonby. I’ve got a great view of the sky tower from our apartment, and we have just been doing so much stuff. We bought a car. In order to buy a car, we needed to set up a bank account. In order to set up a bank account, we had to do a million different things.  It’s difficult to do any of these things, to do any of this red tape stuff when you don’t have an address. And when you don’t plan on having an address for a long time, how do you get a social security number? or here, they are known as IRD numbers. How do you get that without a permanent address? What you do is you talk the bank into accepting your old address, even though you don’t own that home anymore, and you are above board and you tell everybody what you’re doing. In the states, I can pretty much predict that the, somebody in those government official entity positions would say, nope, sorry, can’t do it. Here, they’re like, oh, okay, let’s make it work. If we do this and this, and then you cross off this and then I pull this for you, can you wait for 10 minutes? I’m going to go handle this. Okay. I’m back with you. I fixed it. That’s how new Zealanders handle things and it’s been wonderful and exciting. But it has just been a lot, a lot, a lot, and I’m not tired, I’m excited. 

[00:03:32] Every day, we get out and walk around. As soon as I record this, we’re going to go walk down to the promenade on the water and explore that area and it’s just been pretty great. Last night, it was for the first time in months, I cooked a meal in the kitchen that we have here. We have been subsisting on takeout before we moved. And then when we were in quarantine, they delivered our meals to us three times a day. So we didn’t even have to think about it. We just had to eat as often as possible, which was good and bad. But last night, I made a gorgeous salmon with radishes and peas in a Miso Dijon, caper sauce, lots of butter and it was delicious. Also, I’m very much enjoying grazing, again, you know, for breakfast might be a handful of peanuts and an apple kind of thing, rather than having a full meal delivered to you three times a day. And I’m one of those people who I just, it’s very hard for me to throw out a whole meal, a hot meal. So, it’s kind of nice not to have to eat that often, to be very honest.

[00:04:37] What else? Oh, in terms of work, it’s been great. I’ve been getting stuff done. I have picked the next project that I am really focused on. And, I don’t know if I’ve said it on the air yet, but I am writing the book, 90 Days to Done, based on the class I teach. My goal is to have eventually a book, at a book price, and then a walk yourself through, a do it yourself, evergreen course at an evergreen course price. And then my hold you by the hand and take you through it, which is what I do nowadays at the higher price, so all three price points in the market for 90 Days to Done because I love teaching it. And I love nothing more than watching people finish their books, especially people who are finishing their books for the very first time and I want to help more people do that. So that is what I am focusing on right now. Hopefully get the first draft done in a couple of months. I could probably do it faster, but I don’t want to. We are in New Zealand to try to embrace some of their famous work-life balance and it is almost 3:30, so my day’s almost over. Cause that’s when I’m trying to finish right now, I don’t think I’m going to finish in the next two minutes. I’ll still have to upload this thing, but you know, I’m trying to not work until six and seven at night, which is what I did in the states. And I don’t want to do that here.

[00:05:58] So, it’s been quite great. I love it. And it just feels good. It feels like the right choice and that is a huge relief and I’m sure that we will have ups and downs, times that we will think what the hell did we do. But right now we’re both really enjoying it. I want to shout out and quickly thank new patrons. Thank you to Lynette Carter and Elizabeth Adams and Isabel Peringue. I’m guessing on that name, beautiful. And Kate Havroq, thank you so much, you all for joining over at patreon.com/Rachael. Over there, you can get all the essays that I’ve written about living your creative life and right now I’m writing about doing something big, like making a move like this. And also, if you’re at the $5 level, which Kate came in at, then you get me for a mini coach, Kate. Thank you for your question. And I will be getting to that very soon. So, let’s jump into the interview with Katrina, cause it’s a little longer than most because I adore her. And you will too. She is delightful. Plus, she’s got that incredible accent. So please enjoy, please do your writing.  I got a couple emails this week from people who say, okay, Rachael, you always want me to email you and tell you how I’m doing with my writing and here I’m doing it. And I love them. You can always reach out to me, Rachael, at RachaelHerron.com. You got to spell it right, but that’s the only bar, that’s the only barrier to entry. Please email me, tell me how your writing is going. Please be kind to yourself, be gentle to yourself. If you’re not writing, forgive yourself for every moment you’ve ever not written in your whole entire life. Forgive yourself right now. It’s all fine. It’s exactly right. It’s you’re in exactly the right place where you are supposed to be. And why don’t you fit in 10 or 15 minutes tonight or tomorrow morning? Don’t put it off anymore. Do a little bit of it. And then email me, tell me how it went. Okay. I know I’m speaking quickly because, got to get off the clock. Okay. Enjoy the interview, my friends, and we’ll talk soon. 

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[00:08:26] Rachael Herron: Okay. Well, I could not be more pleased today to welcome to the show, my friend, Catriona Turner. Hello, Catriona!

[00:08:33] Catriona Turner: Hi, Rachael! Oh my goodness, the honor is entirely mine.

[00:08:36] Rachael Herron: No.

[00:08:37] Catriona Turner: This was like an author bucket list thing that I was going to do like in two or three years, but you invited me today. So,  

[00:08:44] Rachael Herron: I invited you and I’m also like strong-arming you into being here, just a bit.

[00:08:50] Catriona Turner: Coaxing me, you coaxed me.

[00:08:52] Rachael Herron: So let me give you a little bit of an introduction for people. Catriona Turner is a writer and editor currently living in Esbjerg, I already forgot how to say it, Denmark. A veteran of six international moves since leaving Scotland 12 years ago, she’s also lived with her family in France, Uganda, and the Republic of Congo. At her website, The Frustrated Nester, she writes about Danish living, travel, and the expat life. She has contributed a regular column to a magazine for internationals in Denmark, and her writing has featured in anthologies about international living. She also works as a freelance copyeditor and proofreader. With a couple of to-be-completed novels on the shelf, she’s currently working on a memoir, due for publication in early 2022, while preparing for her family’s next big move. And everyone listening, I want you to know that Katrina and I have spent time together in Venice, Italy, and that’s how we really got to know each other. But it’s the honor has been mine and getting to watch and read your writing. You are a beautiful writer.

[00:10:00] Catriona Turner: Thank you.

[00:10:02] Rachael Herron: The way you write about your family and about the international living, when you made it official that you were going to write this memoir that you were writing this memoir, I was so pleased. So first of all, I want to ask about that. How is it going? How is the work going?

[00:10:18] Catriona Turner: Okay. It’s going, so my mantra is inching onwards.

[00:10:24] Rachael Herron: That is wonderful.

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Ep 252: What If I Can’t Fit Everything Into My Book?

In this bonus mini-episode, Rachael talk about when to have multiple POVs, and also tackles the question, What if I can’t cram everything I want to into this book?

Transcript:

[00:00:00] Rachael Herron: Welcome to “How do you Write?” I’m your host, Rachael Herron. On this podcast, I talk to authors about how they write, what their process is and how their lives fit together. I’ll keep each episode short so you can get back to writing.

[00:00:18] Well, Hello writers! Welcome to episode #252 of “How do you Write?” I’m Rachael Herron. This is a bonus real quick mini episode. I am still in the bathroom in Auckland, New Zealand in our managed isolation still on day 10 of 14. This is coming. I’m recording this right after I recorded the last podcast. So I’m still in the same place. Still with the same lipstick on that could use a refresh if you’re watching on YouTube. So let’s get into a couple of questions from people who pledged to Patreon at the $5 a month level. I am your mini coach. You can ask me any damn thing you want. I will probably respond to anything you ask, unless it is absolutely outside, how do they say that outside the pail, but otherwise I’m going to answer it and I’m going to answer it on the air. So let’s go. 

[00:01:10] This one comes from Lamar Dixon, hello Lamar. Okay. So Lamar says, so my question is I have this story I want to do. But it’s been so long since I had to actually write for school or college. And I feel as if my skills have diminished and I’m not competent. And as for my story, I don’t know if I should write or make a comic out of it. I can’t draw, but I can do the writing part. But for the book aspect of it, I feel like I can’t cram everything into it, but I don’t know. Thank you for your help. Okay. So Lamar, I love this question because it is really broad and a lot of people are going to be feeling exactly like you are. And there is a simple, simple answer. You just have to start writing. If you are the kind of person who is listening, who needs a plan of action before they write, that’s absolutely fine, but give yourself a time limit and don’t let yourself have more than a week of maybe an hour and a Monday and an hour on a Friday. There you go. There’s your week. You’ve thought about it, you planned, now start writing, or you could use the whole week. You could use every day to do a little bit of plotting and planning, but don’t give yourself more than a week for me. I don’t give myself more than two days to do that because I will get into a loop in my head and most writers do. We start spiraling. We start wondering every single thing we think of is a great idea until we think about it a little bit harder and write about it a little bit more, you know, for journaling about it. And we realize, no, that’s a terrible idea. And here’s why I need to start all over. And I thought it was, this was great, but, it’s the worst thing that’s ever been thought of. And we can do that for days, weeks, months, years as we try to come up with the absolute best plan of action. 

[00:02:55] So give yourself a time limit. One week is good. And then after that, you just start writing and you are not ready, but here’s the thing: you never will be ready. We will never be ready to write the books we want to write or to write the essays or to write the memoir, whatever it is that you were writing or to write the graphic novel, we’re never going to be ready. We just have to write a terrible first draft. And I mean, Terrible first draft. I think it is at rachelheron.com/SFD, which stands for a Shitty First Draft. If you want to look at an example of a page of mine, that is a first draft. It is terrible. I’m missing whole words and ideas. I’m talking to myself on the page. That’s all that first draft is, is it’s us thinking about what we might wanna do, putting it on the page, realizing it’s awful, getting confused, and being kind to ourselves anyway, continuing to move forward into continuing to put more direct onto the page. That’s our job as a writer. So the worry that you have, that you have too much stuff to put into one book, you might be right. Another really common worry is that, I don’t have enough to put into a book and you might be right about that too, but you will never know until you write the book and when you write the book and it has too much stuff, guess what? Then you get to choose what to take out. And if you write the book and it’s not long enough, and it doesn’t have enough substance, then you get to figure out what to add, but you cannot decide those things before you write the book and it tells you what it wants to be.

[00:04:34] Because no matter what, no matter how smart we think we are about our books, they have different plans and they would like to tell you about them. And the only way they are going to be able to do that is if you let them, if you put down some terrible sentences, let them be terrible and learn from them. And come back to them later and fix them and change them and move them and delete them and add to them. But the terrible writing has to be done first. So thank you for asking the question that I love to answer over and over and over and over again. I don’t think we can talk about it enough that we have to lower our expectations for our own writing and right down to the floor and then dig a basement. We have to be comfortable with the bad writing. The good writing will come later. I promise, but the bad writing has to come first. Even if you’ve written 30 books still has to happen in that order. So thank you for that. Next question is from, here it is from Michelle. She says I, is there a sort of pro versus con to having two points of view in a story? I’m trying to write two points of view, but sometimes I get annoyed at books with more than one point of view because I like a certain character best.

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Ep. 251: Mark A. Alvarez II on How to Write Scars and Vulnerability

Mark A. Alvarez II is Hispanic-American born in Houston, Texas. He’s a graduate of Texas State University, where he studied Public Relations and Mass Communications. He is a graduate of the NEW Apprenticeship, the first tech-apprenticeship program accredited by the United States Department of Labor. He is the CEO and Founder of Light Wings Promotions LLC, a digital marketing and creative branding agency based in San Antonio, Texas, where Mark currently resides. Dutybound is his first novel. 

Transcript:

Rachael Herron: [00:00:00] Welcome to “How do you Write?” I’m your host, Rachael Herron. On this podcast, I talk to authors about how they write, what their process is and how their lives fit together. I’ll keep each episode short so you can get back to writing.

[00:00:16] Well, Hello writers! Welcome to episode # 251 of “How do you Write?” I’m Rachael Herron. I’m so pleased that you’re here with me today in New Zealand as I record this intro. Today, we are talking to Mark A. Alvarez II. When we spoke, I was not in New Zealand, so you’re going to be flashing back and forth in time as you hear these things. If you watch on the YouTube channel, you will see me in my old office and in different places for the next couple of months because I stacked up so many episodes in order to give myself a little bit of breathing room, so that’s happening. But, Mark was really, really awesome to talk to. We talk about our own scars and how to show them in our writing. Basically, we talk about writing with the vulnerability, that means we are actually writing with truth and with honesty, with the kind of voice that readers lean in to listen to.

[00:01:16] So I know you’re going to enjoy the interview, just a little catch up around here. Again, if you are watching on the YouTube channel, number one, did you know there’s a YouTube channel? Number two: Did you know that you should subscribe to it? I think it’s YouTube, just google it YouTube Rachael Herron (RachaelHerron) or RachaelHerronWrites and it comes right up. Trying to do a little bit more with the YouTube channel these days. So if you did want to watch over there or put it on in the background while you’re doing something else, I would love that. But if you’re watching on it, you get to see what the inside of a New Zealand bathroom in a hotel looks like. And let me tell you, it is like nothing you have ever seen before, except it is actually like every other bathroom you’ve ever seen before. 

[00:01:54] Lala, my wife, made a very funny joke on Twitter yesterday, which nobody seemed to think was as funny as I did, but she said that she’s starting to get Stockholm syndrome because she finally understands how all the faucets and taps work. You know how, when you’re in a hotel room, you can never figure it out. By the time you start working it out, you’re leaving the hotel room. Well, we are in here long enough to figure out how to work every single little thing in this hotel. Including all the knobs of taps in the shower bath, which is where we are spending a lot of time because out there, it’s basically a 10×10 room with a queen size bed in the middle, a tiny desk that I have given to Lala because she is a web developer and she codes and she needs a couple of screens and I’m a writer. I can curl up in a corner, I can curl up on the bed. I have a standing desk, that is what I am at right now, in the bathroom. I’m so glad that I packed it in my suitcase and didn’t throw it out a million times. Also, I have like a little riser stand for my computer. And a friend sent to the hotel a little lap desk which is fantastic when I’m in bed.

[00:03:01] So I am set up when it comes to that, but the room is tiny. And if I’m talking at this volume, I’m going to annoy everybody. And also, if my wife is talking on a meeting at this level, she’s going to annoy me. So we repair into the bathroom at this time when we’re doing these kinds of things, which is pretty hilarious to me. But, we are spending a lot of time in this bathroom because there’s no place to get away from each other. And I was talking to her yesterday and actually I’m writing about this for my next Patreon essay, but, I’m not tired of her. I don’t want to get away from her. She doesn’t want to get away from me. It’s weird. This is day 10 of 14, trapped in a room. They bring us all our meals to the door. We open the meals after they’ve left, wearing our mask, bring them inside, eat them on the floor, cause the desk is too small, but yeah, we’re just not tired of each other yet. 

[00:03:53] However, we are both people who value alone time, more than anybody else we’ve ever met. So I don’t want to get away from her, but I want to be alone. So this bath tub has been saving us. I’ve been taking like a two-hour bath a day. She’s taking a two, two and a half hour bath a day. That adds up to four hours alone, four and a half hours alone when we do that. So that’s been awesome, a lot of tub time. What else has been going on? Really nothing’s been good on because I’ve been trapped in this room for 10 days. And I say, trapped, we are allowed at once a day if we make an appointment. And there’s a little yard, there’s a parking lot, small parking lot that you can walk in circles in, if you make an appointment and so we can go out there once a day. Today, my walkies are at 6:00 PM and I will definitely be utilizing that. I usually put a podcast or an audio book in my ears, and I just walk around and around and around and around and around, and I’m wearing a mask. So I can’t even smell New Zealand.

[00:04:55] It’s this really strange liminal space we’re at that we are in New Zealand, but we’re actually not in New Zealand. I’m recording this on a Thursday. On Monday, we get out and we move to an apartment for a week in Auckland. And we’re going to be able to walk around, no masks cause there’s no COVID here, not quit. And just live, we’ll be able to live. And I’m super, super, super excited about that. So I will keep you posted on how that is going. Everything else is continuing a pace I’m actually managing to get work done in the hotel room. I dunno, I said actually, there’s not much else to do, so of course I’m getting work done. It’s a pretty great environment for that. I wanted to quickly thank some new patrons cause I haven’t done that in a while, I think. Penelope Penn, my friend Penn. Thank you Penn. Very much. Melody Maclntyre, Kaye Neil, thank you. Thank you, Catherine Van Auken. Thank you, Kiersten Saxton. Yay Kiersten! and Julie H, thank you, thank you! And Juliet Martin, lovely person edited her pledge up to the $3 level, which is where you get texts from me. So, Juliet help that you have signed up for that. If you have not just going to Patreon and look at any of the essays and it tells you in there how to sign up for those text messages from me, which people like getting, and you can text me back and that’s, I really, really enjoy doing that. So thank you, thank you to everyone who follows along on Patreon. I hope you are enjoying the essays about moving to New Zealand and about existentially a little bit bigger than that. Like what the hell does it mean to make such a big move at midlife? And we bind everything that you know. 

[00:06:41] Thank God for writing. How do non-writers get through the world? How do they get through a life without writing? I was super upset, a very, very, very small thing. It was not matrimonial. It was an outside issue. And when I say super upset, like I was annoyed. For me, that’s pretty upset. And I went to bed annoyed and I went to bed thinking I cannot wait to write my journal because I’ll fix it then. And in the morning, I was still annoyed and I wrote in my journal and I realized, oh, there’s nothing to be upset about. Writing about it got me to understand the thing I hadn’t been able to understand to make it not annoying anymore. How do people function without that? So I think that we are just a very, very cool subsection of people that get that extra tool.

[00:07:30] So I hope that you are using your tool that you are putting it into service of your life, of your heart, of your happiness, only you can do that. If you’re not doing it, don’t beat yourself up. That’s the worst thing you can do. If you are not writing, stop beating yourself up and just write for 10 minutes. Write something terrible, something awful, terrible words that will let you down. That is fine. That’s what they’re supposed to do. That’s normal. Write for 10 minutes and then you get to feel smug that you did a little bit of writing and it will make you happier. So, that’s my prescription to you today from the inside of a bathroom. The next time we talk, who knows where I’ll be? I think I’ll be an Auckland, in an apartment but, anything could change. So, happy writing, my friends. Please enjoy this interview with Mark and we’ll talk to you soon. 

[00:08:18] Hey, you’re a writer. Did you know that I send out a free weekly email of writing encouragement? Go sign up for it at www.rachaelherron.com/write and you’ll also get my Stop Stalling and Write PDF with helpful tips you can use today to get some of your own writing done. Okay, now onto the interview.

Rachael Herron: [00:8:36] Well, I could not be more pleased to welcome to the show, Mark A. Alvarez II. Hello, Mark!

Mark A. Alvarez II: [00:08:42] Hi. How are you doing? Thanks for having me today. 

Rachael Herron: [00:08:44] I’m so excited to have you, so excited to talk to you. Let me get you a little introduction here. Mark A. Alvarez II is Hispanic-American born in Houston, Texas and I have a lot of friends in Texas, in Houston, actually. He’s a graduate of Texas State University, where he studied Public Relations and Mass Communications. He is a graduate of the NEW Apprenticeship, the first tech-apprenticeship program accredited by the United States Department of Labor. And he is the CEO and Founder of Light Wings Promotions LLC, a digital marketing and creative branding agency based in San Antonio, Texas, where Mark currently resides, and Dutybound is his first novel. So welcome to the show! Congratulations on your release. Tell me again, when it came out. 

Mark A. Alvarez II: [00:09:32] It actually, it’s not out yet. It’s coming out in June 22nd. We’re taking pre-orders right now. You can, you know, you can go and find it on my website. We’ll get to that in a little bit. 

Rachael Herron: [00:09:44] I also saw it over on Amazon and by the time this podcast goes live, because I’m pretty booked out right now, your book will be live and you will be an author already. So how does it feel to have your first book coming out?

Mark A. Alvarez II: [00:10:00] It feels absolutely amazing just because, you know, I spent so much time on it. I mean, I’ve been working on this and it’s really hard to believe. I’ve been working on this book since I was a kid. I was about 14 when I started writing it. Even, you can even say before then, because I had some source material, like I was actually like sort of dreaming of designing a video game whenever I was younger. But it was the day I finished reading Harry Potter and Deadly Hallows that I decided that I wanted to write this book. And I remember that day, cause like, as soon as I closed the book, I was like, I can’t believe it’s over. Like my Harry Potter journey is over. And I was like I need to start my own. And that’s how Dutybound, all the seeds for Dutybound started. 

Rachael Herron: [00:10:46] I love that and all these years later. So what are you going to do to celebrate when you’re book comes out? 

Mark A. Alvarez II: [00:10:52] Well, my mom is planning a small get-together. It’s a little launch party for me with close friends and family. I’m inviting some people from my, you know, high school and some people that I grew up with, things, people that haven’t caught up with in the long time because you know, it’s like a homecoming. I left home and did what I was sought out to do and, coming home, you know, finally fulfilled, finally reached the dream. And, you know, there’s still much more work to do, but that’s the way I’m treating it is, you know, a homecoming and, you know, I finally, I’m a champion and triumphant, victorious.

Rachael Herron: [00:11:30] I love that.

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